its strange to see someone vent about something thats none of their business. even though it seems like you know the history of jule and i, it doesn't mean that you can preach and tell us whats up. we know all that. its how we function as a relationship. some days we have times when we argue- and it may look like its totally hardcore. but its not. our history goes way back and we understand each other enough that we know our limits- we know how to piss each other off, and we know how to make the other happy. i know we may be young but our relationship is growing. everyday is a challenge and we are still learning. i love her. and it may seem that i'm doing all the work in this relationship but really it takes two. if you really think you're helping us, you're not. mr/ms. ananymous if you're one of my closest friends, just call me- don't post it on a chatter box. its dumb.